Party Rules and Etiquette

  • This is a private party held in a non-public space for invited guests and members only.  Anyone with a membership in any major SM group in Salt Lake City is welcome.  Please bring proof of involvement. 
  • We reserve the right to refuse entrance to anyone for any reason, we also reserve the right to eject anyone from the premises for ignoring the rules or engaging in unsafe, exploitative, illegal, or non-consensual behavior of any kind.
  • You must show valid proof of ID upon entrance proving that you are 21 years of age or older.
  • Re-entry with hand stamp only. 
General Dungeon
  • No firearms allowed.
  • Alcohol must be served by the bartender.  You must drink responsibly.  Anyone who is deemed to be drinking to an excess will be asked to leave.  We will call you a taxi.
  • No illegal drugs may be used within the play space, or outside the venue. 
  • Please inform a Dungeon Monitor (DM) or the party admin before beginning any potentially loud, disruptive, offensive and/or messy scene.  This will make sure your scene doesn’t get interrupted.
  • Never attempt to join or interrupt anyone’s play without prior permission from everyone involved.  If you feel a scene needs to be stopped bring your concern to a DM and/or party admin.  
  • Condoms and lube will be available to encourage safer sex.  
  • Please do not adjust the lights, music/stereo equipment, thermostats, or any other electronics.  If there is an issue with any of theses please notify a DM and/or the party host..
  • If additional lighting is needed for a scene, discuss it with a DM.
  • For the purposes of privacy: Pictures may happen, only under DM supervision. The DM will check to make sure nobody is in a photo that isn't intended.
Play Equipment
  • Do not sit or leave your play toys on the playing surfaces or equipment unless you are playing there.  The chairs and floor are available for that purpose. 
  • If you want to use an unfamiliar piece of equipment, DO NOT GUESS.  Ask the party host, DM(s), or Insurrection staff for assistance.
  • Do not move any large dungeon equipment without permission and help from the DM
  • Make sure all equipment used is cleaned immediately following a scene with the appropriate cleaner from the sanitation stations
  • Completely remove all toys and objects used in a scene from equipment when finished with your scene.

Scenes With Fluids/Fire
  • You must ask a DM / party admin before doing any blood play.  Any players piercing or cutting must use a sharps container.  Ask the DM/ Staff for one, if a container is unavailable before you begin your scene.  
  • All body fluids must be contained within your play area.  Protect the dungeon equipment from fluids with the use of towels, chucks, plastic wrap, etc.
  • Anything that may have body fluids on it should be cleaned, thrown away and/ or stored immediately following a scene.  DO NOT leave anything with body fluids on it laying around or available for others use.
  • For safety Fire Play will not be permitted at this party.
Dungeon Etiquette 
  • Wristbands will be provided indicating that you are interested in cruising / pick up play.  Feel free to socialize with anyone you like, however do no solicit play or sex from anyone who does not have a wristband.
  • We recommend the practice of safe sex, however we will not police your sex and assume that you are an adult and can make that decision for yourself.
  • Non-intrusive voyeurism is welcome and appreciated, as long as it does not disturb the play being watched.  Spectators must always give players their required space, even if it means leaving the room. 
  • We highly encourage using proper negotiation before starting a scene with someone and the use of safe words during your scene.
  • The players at this party vary widely in experience and styles of play.  Don’t be quick to judge the play of others based on your own experience or style.  
  • If you don't know, ask.  DM’s and Staff are available to answer any questions you might have.